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Tip five: Holding Positive Points

Another way to help your child relax and let go of tension or uncomfortable thoughts or
feelings is to hold their positive points on their forehead. The reason it works so well is
because it is a neurovascular point which improves circulation and helps to bring the
blood flow back into the thinking part of the brain. If you want to make it even more
powerful, you can have the child do a hook up while you are holding these points.

1) Rub your hands together briskly and then shake them off to gather the energy into the
hands.
2) Place your finger tips lightly on your child’s positive points above their eyebrows.
The positive points are located directly above each eyebrow and below the hair line.
(You can also use the whole hand on the forehead with another hand placed at the back of
the head just above where the skull meets the neck. This covers the fear points at the back
of the head and sets up an energy resonance between the 2 hands.)
3) I usually ask the child to think about what ever is upsetting them or making them feel
stressed. This usually takes about a minute or more.
4) Remember, having the child do a hook up while holding these points makes this and
even more powerful exercise.
5) If the child will not cooperate to do this procedure, then set an intention to do it for
your child while completing it on yourself.
you can do this simpy by saying something like 'i do this for ........................ for their highest wellbeing'.

Tip Six: Heart Lock In

Locking in the positive energy of the heart is another way to clear negative energy from
the body’s nervous system and increase positive loving energy.

1) Tell your child that you are going to teach them how to make the loving positive
feelings of their heart bigger. Explain that a “Heart Lock In” is like opening a door inside
their heart to allow more sunshine and love in.
2) Have the child close their eyes and focus on their heart center while they think about
something that makes them feel happy or loved. Have them place their hand on their
chest when they feel those loving feelings there.
3) Now have them image that they have a key and can open up their heart to let in more
light and love. Can they image their breath is going slowly in and out through the door in
their heart?
4) When their loving heart energy has increased, have them think of someone they would
like to send some positive loving energy to. When they are ready, they can send out a
bubble of loving energy to the person they are thinking of. Can they feel the doorway of
their heart open even wider as they send out positive loving energy? What color was the
bubble of loving energy they sent out? Is there anyone else they would like to send
loving energy to?
5) Playing happy, positive music while the child is sending out loving energy adds a nice
touch. Suggest that the child may want to continue to send out loving happy energy to
different people or places. It is also fun to send loving energy back and forth between the
two of you throughout the day!
6) After they are finished, talk to them about what they noticed happening while they
did this “Heart Lock In” activity. Usually there will be an increase in their positive,
loving feelings.